Infidelity & Beyond

3 - Above and Below the Line

Kate Harvey

I started to do a lot of reading and research about recovering from infidelity. The trouble was that most of it was either to help repair a relationship, or prepare yourself for a new one. Which is fine for some, but not for me. 

Where was the stuff about healing just for my own sake? About letting go of the pain and anger just for the purpose of my own peace and wellbeing? I just couldn’t find it in the infidelity stuff.

I then decided to branch out a bit from infidelity topics and move to more the self-help, self growth material. And there’s where I found my happy place. 

And the biggest one was the concept of above the line and below the line thinking. You may heard of it as victim vs victor mentality. 

This week we explore the concept of above and below the line thinking and the benefits of living above the line.

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